Losing Friends

 Losing friends can be really hard, especially in mental health recovery. When friends end the relationship, you can feel like you're a burden, or that you aren't loved. Sometimes you feel like everybody hates you, and you're incredibly lonely. I know I've sure felt that way. I've lost some of my favorite people in some of the absolute lowest points of my life, and it was horrible. Even now, I feel like I can't forgive them for how and when they left me, but I'm trying. They deserve that forgiveness because I know despite our differences, they are kind and genuine people. So my advice: take a deep breath. Remind yourself that there are so many people out there who love you, appreciate you, and want to be a part of your life. Focus on those people. Love those people. And, eventually, you'll start to love yourself more than those friends ever did. Self-love comes first, forever, and always.

Be kind to people, you don't know what they're going through.

♡ Saige









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